If you have or know a teenage girl, or one that was a teenager in the ’90s, you must have heard them say, at least once (or to some of us parents, many times) AS IF! (insert attitude). When it is used in this way, they mean… “like that would ever happen.”
When we use it as a spiritual principle it actually means… it can only happen if we act as if. This was the 9th condition of a miracle that we explored this week, Acting As If, and I want to continue our exploration because this is a crucial step in the manifestation process that is often overlooked or misunderstood.
When we are working towards manifesting our dreams, creating a new situation or circumstance, attracting greater love, abundance, joy, creativity, restoring our health, living our purpose, any and all desires that we hold in our heart, we know that any change must begin within our own consciousness. This is liberating and also can be daunting. We are told that all things are possible with God, and of course they are, and yet we also know as Truth students, that it is our responsibility to align our consciousness and our vibration with the most high and not with our self concept or mortal mind that cannot see past the objectified conditions of our life. So we learn the steps, we practice emptying, letting go, surrendering, aligning with Spirit through prayer and meditation, imagining our new life, and then we are told to act as if. We are told that acting as if means that we take action in the direction of our dream and that this action is often a big leap of faith.
Ok, here is where some of the misunderstanding may come in. Acting as if is NOT the same as “fake it till you make it.” If we are saying what we think we “should say” and acting in a way that feels inauthentic just because we want to “walk our talk” but we don’t even believe our talk, then it may make us look better to our “spiritual friends” but the Universe only responds to HOW WE FEEL; the Universe only responds to the authentic energetic patterns we are holding. So if we are faking it… you get the picture. What to do? Well, don’t lose faith!
We must not only “act as if” we must “FEEL AS IF,” and we must make this leap of faith in our own consciousness and inner energy field first before we even speak or act. How do we “feel as if” when things don’t feel good? We use some of the same steps of manifestation that we are using to create miracles:
Empty – Turn away from the condition and even how you feel about the condition. Breathe deeply, let go of fear, worry, doubt.
Align – Turn within and connect with God in whatever way works for you.
Feel – Imagine how you would feel when you achieve your desire, whether it is perfect health, a new relationship, a new job, greater financial abundance, peace in your relationships. If you can’t imagine, then think of something you already have that makes you feel good, connected, joyful, peaceful. But you must be able to feel the feeling of the desire already met.
Then, when you return to objectified consciousness and you still are not experiencing this new condition, you keep the faith. You continue to feel as if it is happening even though the evidence has not yet appeared. Remember, lack of evidence is not evidence of lack (thank you Michael Beckwith for that Truth that I pull out of my “Truth Tool Bag” often). This is the biggest leap of faith you will take, to continue to trust that God (remember to whom ALL things are possible) is arranging all of the details in the great mystery of life to bring you the greatest life.
It is a big leap of faith in consciousness, one that requires constant diligence and still requires us to act as if. Again, not faking it. If you cannot speak authentically yet, or even act authentically yet, then be quiet and just be. Never speak against your dream or act in ways that will negate the prayer you have made to the Universe. So often, and I can attest to this more than I would like, I have to just not talk or act (both of which I love to do), until once again I can align with the feeling tone of my desire as if it is already here. Then I can move forward authentically with faith and inspired action.
Something to remember… while you are getting to this point, it may often be necessary to work through your doubts and fears with a trusted spiritual friend or teacher; please do that. Don’t deny what you are feeling; just know that you are working toward the feeling that you know you will have and that God wants you to have. Oh, and in the times that you can’t find the feeling at all, feel gratitude; be thankful for all that you do have. That will lift your vibration in an instant.
Watch this video for even greater wisdom from Abraham HIcks about Feeling As If: